I've learned that I am whoever someone wants me to be.
So during my down time I was scrolling through Pinterest (go ahead and follow me there!) and found a 31 day self love challenge by BlessingManifesting.com. I love a goal oriented challenge so joined in.
A prominent memory from my adolescence was debating with boys who had it worse in life. The variables would change weekly but the point remained: someone has to lose and I'd like to know who it is. There used to be a sense of pride that would swell up whenever I would reason my opponent into submission. But after living through some colorful romantic experiences, I started wondering how that mindset molded my outlook on relationships and love.