When you are just you, playing people just for the hell of it is a hobby that's acceptable. The dancing around definite answers, Watching people trying to close at last call, Giving false hope to the unlucky bastards who had the guts to ask for your number.
It's fun at first.
Then you find someone who got past your wall, The wall that helps you play the game in the first place. Things change when you aren't just you anymore. You are the representation of your partner now.
One day you'll have the opportunity to play some unsuspecting men. Before you do Ask yourself Is it worth losing that brave and strong person who got past your wall?